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Topics covered by the FAQ and in countless threads already will be removed, as will posts that do not follow the guidelines in the FAQ. More details on the community rules can be found here. Straight men that have experimented giving head — any regrets? I'm thinking of trying it self. I'm in my early 40s and for most of my life I have been a completely straight male with absolutely no temptation to do anything with a guy.
I kissed a guy when I was like 15 and that was enough curiosity for me for the next 25 years: I have begun to think about going down on a really big cock myself and even posted here about it many months ago.
My concern is that I don't really feel gay. I'm not really attracted to guys. But I would like to see once in my life what it was like to have a big cock in my mouth.
But I'm worried about how I would feel afterwards about myself, my self-esteem, etc. I'm not worried that I will really like it and want it a lot.
I guess that would be a good outcome: I also think that as a fantasy this has merit for me but that if it came to a reality and there was actually a guy standing there moaning or trying to talk dirty or put his hand on my head or something that those are things I wouldn't want. I think I can arrange to have it happen with restrictions on things I don't want like being called insulting names or something and that could be the way I end up going.
But I'm just curious if there are any other "generally straight" guys out there that were interested in this type of thing and tried it and how they have felt about it afterwards. It's been on my mind a lot lately. I wouldn't mind a big cock in my mouth but I go back and forth on the issue: I consider myself heteroflexible.
I'm not attracted to guys or even hit on them. I only have sex with women and fap to that. However, I think penises are attractive. I'll fantasize of slobbing some knob at random times but I have no interest in gay sex even if I was a top. Making out with guys doesn't feel right. I've wanted to try oral on a guy again but I'm ultra-paranoid that word will get back in my social circle to make my life a living hell thanks, experimental years.
Recently, in a sex positive place I was in, where I knew no one, an opportunity made itself available where I could give a guy head. I didnt try to get him to cum as I just wanted the taste and feel. How I felt afterward? I just said to myself, "That's cool. Glad I tried that again. I didn't feel like I was suddenly gonna go gay as I knew I still lusted after women. Just let your fears go and do what feels right if given a chance.
Yeah, my1throw, you sound like you and I are in the exact similar position. I don't like men but I am starting to be very attracted to the penis. I know that sounds crazy, because of course they are connected, but so be it. I live in New York City so the opportunity is pretty much there and I'm really not worried about any kind of social circle situation. I'm single, I don't have kids, I really don't even have a workplace type of environment that someone could ruin or whatever.
I wouldn't want my family members or longtime friends finding out but I'm really not too worried about that. I'm from a typical liberal family and I guess it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world. Like I said earlier, I'm really just more concerned about how I would feel — my self-esteem.
How would I feel the next time I was sitting around the table with my mom knowing that I had sucked a dick. I know that sounds crazy, but I definitely have a lot of my self-image wrapped up in how some of those people feel about me. I don't think they would understand the distinction of not really feeling gay or doing anything else penetrating but then enjoying this activity.
Something about your post confused me. So you did it when you were younger, experimenting, and then got to do it again recently? And you had some problems in your social circle because of what you did when you were younger? When I tried fooling around with people whom I thought I trusted when I was a teenager, word got back through the grapevine.
I was labeled a fag by the neighborhood bullies. My brother was bullied at school for having a "Faggot brother. The experience made me paranoid that word would get around so I never attempted it again until very recently. I've learned that I don't need to go into explicit details about my sex life if the subject is broached. I don't have to tell people the intimate details. My current circle thinks I'm a straight, but accepting, male.
What I did was anonymous and none of their business. If after you try it you want to let people then you can. Just be aware of the possible repercussion. Sometimes you should just have fun then keep that dirty secrect locked away. Sadly, the world applies labels based on an action. I am str8 and I tried it once, when I was about 21 just to see what it was like. My gf at the time really enjoyed giving head. That was a long time ago, as I am in my 40's now and I havent done anything since then, as I am str8 and only attracted to women.
Still a nice thick long cock is attractive and if the opportunity presented itself again' I'd probably like to try it once more time. I have never thought I wanted to call myself gay just because I want to put a dick in my mouth. Ialso love my tounge in a pussy. But I would suck a nice cock, no strings attached.
You and me both! I have only tried it once, but if a big thick fat hard cock was at eye level, I'd probably hit my knees! Would not your desire to suck a guy off be considered bisexual if you're attracted to both? I'm trying to wrap my head around this Don't think of sexuality as three categories: Sexuality is a spectrum. You may be male who does every single sex act with a woman, but likes to perform oral sex, but nothing else, on men.
Read this Wikipedia article for more elaboration. The Kinsey scale , also called the Heterosexual—Homosexual Rating Scale , attempts to describe a person's sexual experience or response at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual , to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. In both the Male and Female volumes of the Kinsey Reports, an additional grade, listed as "X", was used to mean "no socio-sexual contacts or reactions"; in modern times, this represents asexuality.
Image i - Kinsey scale of sexual responses, indicating degrees of sexual orientation. Will also delete on comment score of -1 or less. Im not attracted to men in general, I just like cocks and oral sex in any form.
I have only tried it once, a long time ago when I was But if I had the opportunity presented itself again to suck a nice thick fat clean cock, I'd hit my knees and inhale it in an instant!
Until I was 30, only ever dated women. Found the idea of dating men kinda "meh" but had a growing interest in sex with them. Started hanging out with a friend whom I found out was gay , one thing led to another and we basically "dated," with a heavy emphasis on sex. By dating, I mean I did all the same stuff with him as I did with my guy friends social drinking, movies, activities but it was often only the two of us and often led to sex. Sex was a lot of fun, as I have an oral fixation for either gender.
Relationship was fun enough that I now consider myself bi, but I still really like women./p>
I really convinced myself that if I had gone so far as to seek men out with craigslist and bath houses that I must be gay or bi, now I'm not so sure. I would normally only go to bath houses to play with men when I was drunk or on some other drug.
There is some evidence that porn or at least novelty seeking can alter sexual preferences at least in rats http: This link has some further info: If you feel like putting a cock in your mouth is something you want to do, by all means go right ahead and explore there is nothing inherently wrong with it and honestly giving another person pleasure is a downright bro thing to do.
I did have some good experiences and having someone cum in your mouth is surprisingly rewarding at times. A part of me still thinks I would have done it just to try it and experience something different but I'll never know now because the reason I did it in the first place was because I was following my reactions to porn. I would take a break from porn for a while and see if the urges still exist. You seem to be on the fence and worried about what might happen if someone found out.
That is something I have to live with now and will for the rest of my life. I would just try to get yourself to "baseline" and see how you feel. For me, sex with men was just sort of the final taboo, the ultimate naughty thing a straight dude could participate in. I'm not sure now that exploring that taboo was worth it for me, but it may be for you.
Big cocks look awesome but are actually pretty impractical in reality. The thought can be pretty arousing but every one I've come across I end up thinking: This is coming from a dude who's actually good at deepthroating. That's aside from the personality aspect of it, finding someone that you have chemistry with isn't always easy. Thanks for sharing your experiences along the whole spectrum of your non-interest, developing interest, and finally, activity.
As well as the aftermath. A real question about the impracticality you talk about with big ones. Due to the "limits" of the mouth, as you say, is it hard to get those guys to ejaculate when they are really huge, because they're only getting stimulation to a relatively small percentage of their penis?
I'm a little above average and I know that it really sucks when a girl can't provide "full coverage" for me: The calculus of cock sucking is not simple, length may actually be the least of what complicates it.
Doing a "good job" depends a lot on length, girth, rigidity, curve, head size etc. Some cocks are just perfect for deepthroating, they are curved just right up or down actually doesn't matter since you can position yourself the right way to match the curve to your throat and not too thick. Some cocks aren't that long but have no curve and are rigid as fuck, it's not always easy to position yourself correctly.
Think of a swordswallower, they have to look straight up since the sword isn't going to bend down the throat. Some are just too damn thick, your throat can expand a bit but seriously there's a limit. Even if you manage to get it down you can't do much bobbing or anything interesting, if he tries to actually fuck your throat, good luck keeping that shit going for very long. Another thing, some guys are just hard to get off in general regardless of "coverage. At one point you're thinking "ok, I've been at this long enough, just fucking cum already.
There's nothing like the feeling you get when the question of whether you actually like sucking cock crosses your mind while a cock is currently in your mouth.
Again, all this assumes you have something that makes you want to try with this dude and not think "why the fuck do I have this mother fucker's cock in my mouth? I got an instant impression of what it must be like to be a size queen. Well, except for the fact that I got to cut the knockwurst up into more manageable bite-sized pieces.
My wife isn't all that adventurous, and I am. Never been attracted to a guy. Since then my porn use only got heavier and the idea of doing that again was back, but since I gave up porn, it's not something I'm thinking about anymore.
I'm also a straight guy, mid twenties, in a long term committed relationship with a wonderful, beautiful, perfect woman who I love to death. I have a good number of purely sexual fantasies about exactly this - just giving head to another guy.
While I don't think I could ever cheat, or even sleep outside my relationship with someone else, my girlfriend and I have talked about the fantasy, and agreed that if we were ever to have a threesome, MMF or MFF, then the third would have to be open to playing with both of us.
I don't think that we're close to ready yet though, and plan on many many more years of sexual experimentation. I can honestly say two things though:. If I was single, I would hook up with a man, just so I could see what it was like and fulfill this fantasy of giving head,. Had this fantasy a long time took me many years to act on it and now accept I am bi and life had been better since I have. Definitely find yourself the right guy As far as not being sure if you'll like it, I'm thinking you'll probably know the second he takes his cock out whether or not you want it in your mouth.
If you do, then start sucking on it. If you like sucking on it, keep sucking on it. I read in your other post that you're unsure about swallowing, and the taste. I'm sure every guy is different, but in my limited experience, it doesn't really taste good or bad It is a huge fucking turn on though, and just as climactic for you as it is him, to have a guy blow a huge load in your mouth after a hot blowjob.
If you're attracted to and turned on by the guy or at least his cock , I can't imagine not wanting to swallow! But you'll know how you feel about it when it happens. My advise is to try it now though, don't deny yourself the opportunity to possibly have a LOT of fun with it while you still can. Lol hence my opening statement of "find yourself the right guy".
I've given and gotten head from men in MMF-type situations. It was quite enjoyable, in both directions. This behavior started in high school and I've continued to do so occasionally in the years since.
There as a time when I worried about what it "meant", but then I realized that it didn't mean anything, except that I wasn't hung up and was pretty kinky. It never made me want to hook up with a guy 1-on-1, though. I tried that once, and couldn't even get hard. I need a vagina there to get me going. If it's part of your range, it's part of your range.
But doing the act itself is very unlikely to change you in any major way. The idea that human sexuality is so fragile and malleable is a construction of the prudes and the religious zealots. If you want to, find a dude who doesn't know your friends and go to town.
Sexuality is a whole lot more flexible than people would like to believe. I wish people could feel comfortable exploring all aspects of their sexuality without having to worry about the entire sexual identity being called into question. Oh, I didn't mean it in a derogatory way at all. I'm in the same boat that there's a ton of fluidity to sexuality and orientation.
I have similar feelings about this as well. I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now and I've never had any gay tendencies. I play the dominant role in bed most of the time and throughout the years our sexual experimentation has definitely progressed. I remember my girlfriend told me about this if we were ever to have a MFM threeway and thought it would be really hot if I did that.
I never looked at it as anything and kind of dismissed it when she brought it up. We never did have a MFM threeway. Recently thought for the past couple of weeks i've been thinking about it more and more. It's not that I want to fuck a guy in the ass or even have him fuck me in the ass.
I just want to know whats its like to have that sort of feeling I've been having this fantasy where i'm fucking my girlfriend and shes on top. While this is happening i open my mouth and i get to suck a dick. It would be interesting bringing this subject up to her again after I kind of pushed it away.
We'll see where it takes me. Has she talked about whether she just wants to watch you do it or whether the 2 of you would be doing it together? To me, the idea of doing it with a woman — sharing — sounds really cool. I don't think I would do that with a girlfriend. I would be afraid of any potential long-term ramifications. Maybe if we had a really bad fight in 18 months she would start regularly calling me a faggot or something: I'm with you on there.
I, a guy who identifies as straight heteroflexible is more accurate, but it's also really inconvenient to say , discussed a MMF threesome quite a bit with an ex-FWB and got a little bit of the way into planning stages before that fell apart. I've thought about it quite a bit since I think to be with a guy, I'd sort of need a woman there to 'get me started' so to speak The idea of competing with a woman to give a better blowjob really turns me on.
I don't know, maybe I'm just a competitive person, but I feel like elements of competing in the bedroom is one thing I missed out on by being nominally-straight. I've always liked the idea of play-wrestling for dominance in the bedroom, but, as the man, where that is going is pretty much always a forgone conclusion. I've always sort of envied the equality gay and lesbian couples have there, having opportunity to challenge each other in another way But I would never actually enjoy that kind of wrestling with a guy, so instead the option ends up being me and a woman competing with each other to pleasure a third party.
I have no romantic interest in men nor am I really sexually attracted to them. But I love sucking dick. I've sucked two dicks in my life, multiple times for each and dont regret it at all. I never really planned on it happening it just sort of did with my best friend.
He was about six and half inches and pretty thick. The second resulted from when I was talking with another friend he admitted to being bisexual and having a bit of an interest in me. He was about eight inches and quite thick.
The first time I did it I thought I'd probably regret it afterward but as soon as I had it in my mouth I stopped caring and just had a great time. How were you able to handle the guy who was 8 inches and thick? Somebody was telling me that I really shouldn't think of size as such a great thing because it can be difficult or impractical to handle.
On the other hand, I had a girl telling me that I should go for the size if that's what I want because that's what I want. Just curious how you handled what sounds like a pretty nice size.
Honestly I'd say that the bigger cock was more fun to play with. I wasn't able to throat it all the way not even close but just the act of stroking and sucking a huge cock was an amazing experience. I'd say the only drawback was I couldn't get him to cum. On the other hand the "smaller" one the 6ish inch one was easy to get off. I could get him to cum in just a few minutes and several times in a sitting. Each person is different so you have to take the good with the bad just like anything else but I'd say don't shy away from size out of fear of not being able to handle it.
I rather enjoyed it but it really depended on the person. And I was also pretty picky about the penis lol. One guy had a really weird one, I couldn't bring myself to do it so I didnt. I'm a 40 ish straight ish dude.
Starting noticing the beauty of big hard cocks when watching straight porn when I was about I decided to check it out: Realized that I love 1, 3, but not so much 2.
Like you, I'm not really attracted to guys other than being able to platonicly admire a fine specimen and sexually desire cock. But kissing, romance, cuddling, their smell, their energy, does little to nothing for me. In contrast, I lust after all aspects of women, and that lust continues to evolve and deepen in complexity as the years go by.
Happy to answer more, but not sure if you're reading still, so ask away if you want. Can talk about how I share this women, weird stigma feelings, identity, whatever. I am a straight women. But I have had sex with women and it was incredible. At first I had I hard time understand what I was doing and feeling. I have an amazing boyfriend, and have been dating for 6 years. I never considered myself lesbian or bi. I just love women, and love the thoughts and idea of having sex with women.
I think it's perfectly healthy to want to explore. My first experience I was out of my mind scared. But in the end, it was a great experience because women know how to please women was differently then men.
Don't be afraid to go have fun!!! It's has been years since I messed around or had sex with a women. But to this day I still feel weird that I have those desires. And I think society makes us feel ashamed. As the other people commenting, I agree. If you want to tell people what you do and how you fee behind closed doors then do so.
But you don't have to. Yeah, but I think it's different for women. First of all, straight guys generally love the idea of 2 women being together. So I think most guys would be totally cool with their girlfriend or wife fooling around with another woman. But there is more of a stigma attached to a supposedly-straight man "experimenting. But all of these comments and all of these posts are making me feel more more comfortable with the whole thing: I think more women might be okay with their man experimenting than you might think.
I certainly know women who think that is hot. I think we just have less of a window into this when it happens, because, while lesbian porn is marketed to straight men, almost no porn is ever marketed to women.
Women have fewer acceptable ways to express desire to see men going at it. No regrets, it just made me realize I didn't really like touching dudes that way. Not that it wasn't a little hot, but it just wasn't my preference.
I'm a mids male, sexually and romantically attracted to women but not men, though I'm a virgin and never even been in a relationship, but I really want to try giving a blowjob.
I am overwhelmingly hetero, but I love to suck cock. I have sucked about 27 different ones since I was a teenager. The vast majority in the last ten years. It was a fantasy that I just needed to play out. Most men don't come, but one gave me a load and I just swallowed it and I loved it! I have no romantic interest in men whatsoever. I don't want to kiss them, just suck their cocks and play with their balls.
As I said, I have no romantic interest in men at all. I am baseline just very sexual. I have been married for a long time and have only had intercourse with two woman, although a third did give me a blowjob.
My advice is to follow your fantasies and enjoy it. It sounds like if I have the interest at all I'm probably really going to like it. I think there has been like 1 guy posting here who didn't like it compared to like 12 others who have.
And those 12 seem very much like me — have always been straight before, still love women, aren't really turned on or attracted to men in general, but like the idea of trying to suck a hard cock. Well, due to my experience giving head, I can certainly say that I am not straight.
I definitely don't regret it, I had fun, he had fun, and I understood my sexuality better for it. I wish I could give you some advice, but I have never experimented. However, I have always really wanted to. I'm definitely heterosexual - love women - but I do occasionally fantasize about experimenting. I am in your position and would like to try something like this out.
How on earth could I go about doing this though? I am way too scared of going to Craigslist, and I am no longer in a social scene conducive to something like this. And this could never ever ever get into my social circle. I had a friend who recently came out and I actually thought about asking him for awhile, but I thought he would probably think I was kidding.
There is an app called Grindr. I mean, it is similar to Craigslist but you must have a profile and it is a GPS location-based service. You can send pictures and chat for however long you want.. If you decide to meet, you can meet. I've had some great encounters, and met one of my very good friends on it actually. I think a lot of that depends upon where you live. Living in New York City, I have used craigslist many times for many things and generally had success.
Of course I was always laying out money on these occasions and it was always just for girls. Still, I'm really glad I did a lot of these things. To be honest, looking for a guy I have thought about actually paying a male escort.
Part of that is because I really wanted someone really big and if I was paying I felt better about placing limits, etc. Also, it doesn't seem like you would have to pay a guy nearly as much as you would have to pay a woman, according to the very little that I have looked into the situation. I would never try to just go out and "pickup" a guy. Because I'm looking for something very specific. It's almost like being into BDSM. I don't think you go pick up a girl in a normal fashion and then expect she will be into whatever your specific bondage interests are.
If I was in other parts of the country, such as the South, I don't know what I would do. I haven't lived down there but I imagine the potential ramifications could be devastating, and just being outside of a major population center — depending upon where you are in the South — or in the country — generally limits your options.
But I'm sure that where there is a will there is a way and nowadays, with the Internet, etc. I read somewhere that gay men and straight men have the same sex drive. The difference is that the gay man has a partner who is just as eager as he is while the straight man has a partner whose sex drive is less than his in general.
Therefore it's easier to find a gay partner than a straight female partner. The guy below this talked about an app. I'm not tech-savvy, but I'm not sure I want people knowing that I am an "interested guy" when I am sitting in my house or something: Yeah, I've been thinking about this too. Had a serious cocksucking fantasy going on for about a year now. Dan Savage actually recommends escorts as the way to go, because you know what you're getting, you can tell the guy upfront what you're looking for and at least in NYC they're most likely cleaner and better looking than Joe Schmo on Craigslist.
And they're a LOT cheaper than female escorts. I've done a lot of 'research' but still haven't managed to pull the trigger yet. Interested to know if anyone else has tried it this way and what the experience was like. If you are attracted to women and penises, you could seek out a transsexual woman with a penis. There is a bit of a learning curve to trans dating just as there would be for gay dating , but it can be great when it works out.
Don't expect that trans women are "easy. Be open minded and ready to experience something new. I'm in my late 30's and my username is appropriate here. I actually made it to respond to a similar post. I'm not attracted to guys the way I am girls and initially I wasn't attracted to guys at all I'm still not interested in anything more than giving head, but I do find some guys attractive sometimes.
Those guys are few and far between though and generally guys I've already blown. Here is my advice if you decide you are interested in exploring this further whether going all the way or not.
I highly recommend joining a dating site. You don't need to post a pic. Just post a bit about your situation. You will get quite a few offers for immediate sex and a few guys that are genuinely interested in helping you figure this out. Plan to not meet up with anyone immediately. This is primarily to allay your fears and get to know a few guys online.
Plan to keep all communications online only for at least a couple of months. That will give you time to get comfortable with or decide against the idea. It will also give you time to weed out the guys that are just out for a hook up. I found that the best guys were ones that genuinely wanted a long term relationship, but were fine with some short term fun while they searched.
They were patient and helped me work through my fears. It's late and I'm exhausted, but if you want any more advice or to know about my experiences just let me know.
Oh, and don't use Grindr or Craigslist to hook up. The guys that troll them for hook ups are prone to massive amounts of unsafe sex. Remember, if they would immediately hop in bed with you, they'll do it with practically anyone. Well when I was around 8 my neighbough who is about 2 years older than me got me curious about it when I saw him and a friend of mine playing "operation". We began to fool around until the age of We didn't suck each other until around 13 I don't remember how I felt about it anyway and we only kissed like twice.
Ny guy Came across this post and couldn't not reply. I felt the exact same way 4 years ago. Too much watching porn I really wanted to suck dick. Felt very confused and doubted whether I was gay or not. Always been attracted to women, love fucking them, dating them, going down on them and ultimately wanted to marry one Wanted to try and was afraid of the moral and social consequences. I told my gf and she called me a homo and left me. It was horrible and I felt very frustrated didnt even want to meet women.
Then I met this argentine woman very profile girl lady on the street and Started all as fuck buddies, amazing sex and very open minded. We started exploring together I told her about my fascination with cock and she was fine with it. She and I shared and she basically told me that she didnt care as long as I was loyal and honest to her.
We have done everything My piece of advice is tell your girl I am glad I did and I am very happy. We travel to europe sometimes and the things we do I was looking through web sites wondering if I was crazy. I'm divorced and have a few girl friends. Also I'm not attractive to guys but I can't get that thought out of my head. My friends and I use to make fun of gay guy,and here I am thinking of being on my knees for another man.
Not sure it will ever happen but after reading NY guy post, it lets me know I'm not the only guy. Nope, was given reason to question my sexuality, and that pretty much made it clear.
Awkward, not exciting, and gross. Vagina it is, then. I don't think you should be asking "Will I regret this? Personally I love cock myself and would suck one off if the person was an attractive and clean transgender. Straight male, mid 40s. I have thought about what it would be like and have absolutely zero desire to suck another man's dick. I think respectfully that those who fantasize about doing it are bi-sexual.
I watch porn and get turned on when I see a guy's dick about to fuck, but in my mind, I'm thinking "I can't wait to fuck my girl later" and start to picture her wide mouth wrapped around my dick. Again, no offense at all if you guys like that sort of thing, that's great that you're finding that out! I do however, wish my girl would also be into girls that would be aweeeesome. You can be straight and still suck dick. Having sex with someone the same gender as you, and being romantically inclined towards someone of the same gender are two completely separate things.
Sucking dick is just sucking dick. It doesn't mean you're in love with the person the dick is attached to. It doesn't mean you need to buy them a card at valentines day or meet their mother in law, you're just sucking a dick.
This classification does not mean he should identify with anything other than "straight", even if the "who do you have sex with" label changes. He hasn't yet had sex with men, that may change, but it doesn't really change how he has a right to classify himself. You don't stop being straight once you hit 0. I'm really not confusing anything. There is a reason there is separate medical term for men who have sex with men. You seem to be contradicting yourself though. You're saying he definitely fits in one label, and that classifying any differently is wrong, and in the same breath saying that you don't care about classification doesn't matter to you.
There is no 'bi' on the kinsey scale, that's why I'm referencing it. This is not an uncommon classification for people who consider themselves, and are considered by others to be 'straight'. How much clear cut can you get? If you're romantically attracted to only women then you are straight. Love and romantic feelings are a much bigger indicator of sexual orientation than what you do for a sexual release. But judging by how upset this all makes you, maybe you should talk through your issues with someone.
If you are interested in getting a big cock in your mouth I'd think calling your self totally straight isn't quite accurate. I consider myself a completely straight male and the thought of having a dick in my mouth sounds really awful. Reading your post I feel like you might be a little too concerned about labels or what does it mean if you do this or want that.
I guess my best advice is to not stress about it so much and who ever you get to indulge this "fantasy" just tell them kinda what you told us.
That this is something youre new to and to take this kinda easy and slow. He will not have a problem with it. Just stick your hand down his pants, Get him hard then whip it out and go to town.
I sure he won't have a problem with it. As for telling him, you can just send him a txt or call him saying that you have something special for him. It will get his mind rolling. Ok so I'm going to the movies with him saturday.. Well when you have time with him alone start with a make out session and let your hands roam.
Start with your hand on his thigh and work your way up. If he doesn't push your hand away when you get closer and closer to his junk start to rub him through his jeans.
After doing that for a little bit stick you hand down his pants and give his boys a massage. If he doesn't push your hand away keep going. Eventually pull your hand out and unbutton and unzip his pants. After he gets hard as a rock, you can stop kissing at that point, and just stare him in the eyes as you undo his pants.
He won't stop you. I'd bet everything I own and my first born child on that fact. Easy, enjoy the movie until you get bored. Then put your hand on his leg and smile. If he looks at you funny, just smile really big and innocent like you don't know what your doing but love it. Chances are he'll take it from there. Tell him how much you wanna see him. Tell him you wanna spend some alone time, Talk to him on phone or in person not texts.
The tone of your voice will let him know what's up. When your together start making out maybe gently put his hand on one of your breasts if its not there already.
You don't have to rush all you really gotta do is put your hand on his lap. I doubt he will think you are slutty. The question is do you think you are?