Hmm some things about me is im pretty honest, funny, and random in a goofy way haha. At the same time being in a friendship that involves doing things together for fun like dancing,etc.
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There is always something your guy wants, but he is too shy to ask or tell you. If you're not interested in being perfect for him — then why did you even click on this article? If you're offended by reality men are pigs , go date a guy that's BUM and he won't have high expectations of you in return. It's offensive, but it works. A perfect girlfriend always gives her best to look beautiful for her man. Men are visual creatures. We like a woman that looks good, that's obvious.
So take care of your looks. You don't have to look like a supermodel — not at all, just look the best you can, use body lotion, have soft, silky smooth skin that he wants to kiss around the clock. Keep things fresh, and stay as beautiful as you were when you just met — even better, work on yourself to become even more beautiful physically. You can hate him for wanting this, but that's a reality.
It's not like you're attracted to elephants… wait, you are? On the other hand, don't look good for him, but for yourself. You'll naturally be more confident and attractive when you feel good in your own skin. Yeah, it's that simple. Just stop eating sugar, not fat — sugar.
That's our real enemy. Big butts are a trend. What planet do you live on, girl? This girl doesn't need to have a brain , any guy would dump you for her at the drop of a hat. There's nothing like smelling amazing for your guy. A scent of a woman can make a man fall deeply in love; your smell gets engraved deeply in his mind. No matter how forgetful he is. He can recall it and remember you immediately.
So make sure you've got a signature perfume. Have a unique smell, a perfume he loves. Use shampoo that he loves so your natural scent makes him melt of love. It's so much easier to love your girlfriend if she's beautiful and gives her best to stay beautiful for you. We get each other for granted, get lazy, fat, dumb. When you feel like screaming at him, count to ten. And learn the Art of Nagging.
And you'll only make him resentful and dream about his single days when he didn't have to report to explain his throwing-socks-all-around-the-place self to anyone except maybe his mom. That tone is golden. Let's say, he's always late — and inconsiderate…. Talk to him like an child that's relatively stupid.
This works like a charm. Especially if he expects you to complain — he'll be shocked that you didn't scream at him, and feel a lot worse, than if you've gotten into an argument. If you attack him directly, he'll feel offended and he'll try to rationalize his behavior and you'll just get into a fight.
Nag and complain strategically — so it never seems like an attack, but a bit more deceptive and classy. He'll do as you say. Try this next time. A perfect girlfriend loves her guy more than anything. She really loves him and will do anything to keep him happy and satisfied. If necessary, she'll even get into a fight for him.
Loving him is the first step to being a great girlfriend, he needs to know and feel that you really love him, that there's a deeper connection — that he isn't just a rebound or just some guy you're with because you're afraid of being alone. That's not fair to your perfect match. He'll come along, don't worry. It'll be better for both of you. Stop being insecure — it's not attractive.
Your guy will have a hard time to love you if you can't love yourself first. Do everything to feel great in your own skin. When you love yourself, you are more confident and you radiate a positive energy that draws people to you. Make other people happy and you'll be a happier person. There's only one thing you should be sucking out of him pun intended. Obviously, a perfect girlfriend isn't just faithful, but also never makes her guy even feel jealous at all. You don't flirt around with other guys if you love your boyfriend.
Let him know that he is The Guy for you and that you need nothing other than him. He needs to feel this. You develop trust in him by showing that you are only interested in him, he also won't have a reason to be jealous all the time if you're getting a lot attention. And the best way to have him trust you is by not mistrusting him either. There's nothing worse than a girlfriend that doesn't like your friends — and openly complains about them.
Sure, his best friend Joe may be an imbecile — but he is still his best friend. You can give him a friendly suggestion if you think some of his friends aren't good for him, but don't be aggressive about it. Let him make his own decisions. You are his girlfriend, not his mother, and if you continue complaining about his friends, you might just become an annoying ex.
Again, don't go at it directly, instead, be strategic. Make it seem like it was his idea to meet new people or hang out with people you like. A perfect girlfriend likes his imperfect friends just out of respect. As I mentioned, the worst you can do to a guy is to take him away from all of his friends and connections, this makes a guy weaker psychologically, and socially less powerful, so it can shatter his confidence — then you might not be as attracted to him as you were when you just met.
The best thing you can do is to encourage him to grow his network, meet new people, etc. You can't just be good in bed — you must be better than all of his ex girlfriends combined. Hundreds of books have been written for women about sex; unfortunately, most of them are complete nonsense. I would only suggest one resource for sex tips, and most men would agree with me, this guide is the only thing I'd recommend don't read it if you are under 21 and get offended easily.
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That's why she's not single, divorced, or married to a loser. Sex is her secret weapon. You need to be amazing in bed, and cook him delicious meals. Steak and BJ Day should be every day. Over-priced marriage therapists would be digging up trashcans. Nobody expects you to live in the kitchen, but visit it every now and then. I know that a delicious meal is just a phone call away, but even if you make him a simple sandwich that doesn't even taste that good — it's the effort that counts, not the taste.
As it says in the Bible, Luke But they should put it in there. So, if you want to be the perfect girlfriend, get back to the kitchen, and stop wearing pants and flats. High heels and skirts, and then back to the kitchen, woman! Give him a gift every now and then. Make him feel loved and special. Do what other women will not, or do rarely, then do it more often.
A small token of appreciation is always welcome. Give him a massage. He'll always return back for more if not, dump him, he's not worth your time. But seriously, most guys are not romantic. You've watched too many bad movies. His way of being romantic is slapping your big booty whenever you pass by. Unfortunately, you'll have to get used to it./p>
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Seriously how desperate do you have to be to suck up to a guy like that. Jeez I really thought women had more of a life than serving men. Sure you could do SOME of the stuff in this article but tone it down a bit.
Scratch that, A LOT. If a guy loves you he is going to love you no matter how you treat him, yes some of these things are important in relationships but they are not a prerequisite for him to fall in love with you.
I love my boyfriend lots and lots. Thanks so much for this u helped me become the perfect girlfriend I always keep these things in mind thx again. I agree with the whole — look after yourself and treat yourself with respect and if your man loves you he should do the same. Same goes with him, look after him and respect him too. All of these points are just pin-pointing the key things it takes to not only be the best for yourself — but be the best for your man too!
I agree on a lot of these. If you do all these things for HIM. He still could end the relationship for reasons. Leaving YOU in total confusion. You do the above things for only ONE person. The above is a recipe for disaster and lowered self esteem. If you meet the man you love, all the above will shine because you have loved yourself.
But the two of you together are perfect because you take care of your lives apart from the relationship. Take for instance a former disaster of a relationship I had vs my newest relationship. Being kind, respectful and wonderful for this new man comes so natural is surprising myself. But my new guy. I love the freedom of simple. So keep it simple. Work at loving yourself. All else will follow, and it may follow you again and again as you come closer to the ideal match for you.
We are not all cut out dolls to pander to the ideal of all men. Just catch yourself when you can say something amazingly honest to someone. Go with that and love yourself. I appreciate your thoughts. Their is no hard and fast rule for anything. You love and stay because you want to love and stay.
Thats the harsh and true reality. Just be respectful andcaring to each other, that is enough to save any relationship. I see a lot of negative comments on this article! You get what you give, girls. Oh and to the girl whose boyfriend said the article was crap, let me just say this: Idk what age this is meant for or how old you are but college couples would not be into this.
We respect eachother and the rest comes easy. This seems like a terrible guide for unfortunately insecure girls. Your gf if u have one is lucky af. Girls, we should be feminine, work out, eat healthy etc. But, the reason that we do the tasks listed above should not be solely for the pleasure of men, we should live life without the burden of pleasing men. We should live life for us. That some women actually like being feminine and dressing up and eating healthy,working out, etc.
I think this article should be a reminder to we ladies who get caught up in our own heads and take our life frustrationss out on our significant others. I work out so I feel good, but also to give him an opportunity to compliment or join me. Take some of the tips and apply them. No one is perfect but everyone should try to be more considerate of others in their daily relationships of any kind. This article gives you points to consider. Everyone knows no relationship problems are a quick fix.
I feel really bad for any female reading this and believing any word you wrote. So she should change those things and potentially ruin the relationship? And who said anybody was changing? A relationship requires two people not you, if you want to be single then why even bother in reading this?
This is just putting your part. I think a relation is depent upon these tips if someone loves you then he will love you at any situation but there are some facts here that girls need to improve. I guess the question is, what does the woman get in return for becoming an indentured servant? A fat, bald, wrinkled up man in his 30s who could easily pass for 60 years old? Relationships are about both people making an effort for each other. You should both want to be perfect for each other.
And no one should ever have to completely change who they are for someone else. I agree with the previous posters… I spent years in my last relationship trying to be perfect for the guy, cooking and cleaning for him, pleasing him in bed doing whatever he wanted and basically catering to his every whim.
He ditched me by text at 3am one day, saying he was with someone else and I should probably get a chlamydia test. Take this on board by all means, but with a pinch of salt. I work out, because it makes me feel good.
At the same time, this kind of looks like a rule book to becoming a domesticated house wife. I like to dress up and look good for him. But I feel like this list is pretty chauvinistic and meant for an older generation of thought. I work out and do yoga for myself.
I motivate and inspire him to be better and help him become the best he can be by supporting his interests and finding tools for him to grow in those areas. We have fun together: Do you guys feel any wrong with these advice? I know nobody is perfect, but does that mean you have no need to learn and to improve yourself? So what if I get nothing from my boyfriend? You before I begin to gripe, let me just say that 1 I have been in a happy relationship for roughly a year, and 2 I am not a feminist.
That said, I find this list very typical and idealistic. That is probably what bothers me most about this list.
Perfection in a relationship is not a realistic expectation on either part. We have shortcomings and that must be considered when determining your expectations. Second, I loathe the emphasis you place on appearance and sex. It is off-putting and objectifying, to be quite honest.
Yes, attraction and intimacy are important; they should not be top priorities. You love someone for all of them- mostly for their soul, their personality. Inner beauty always shines through, even if outer beauty is decaying even if that sounds banal.
Yes, I know I will get accused of being a feminist or told my points are invalid or something of the like. Assail me with words.
Also, to the women actually considering following this list… I would- for the most part- advise against it.
Be considerate, but stay true to yourself. He does absolutely nothing in our relationship or for me. Because I do everything for him and us. This leads to a one sided relationship where one person is comfortable and lazy and the other does so much that she is exhausted and has none of her needs met.
Wow I love how loving him is 4 and having a personality is 18 except its not about having a personality its actually about just not nagging him if you honestly believe this list and you are a man one of two things are true. I love him and always want him to be happy. But when I check out all this tips, its really helped: But seriously I dun ask for repay everything i do, I just want him to be Happy: Omg… I love everything said!
He knows this about me, though, and he loves me just the same. You should never have to feel like you have to be happy-go-lucky ALL the time. Find someone who sees both the pleasing and not so pleasing sides of you and loves you anyway.
Should have gone specsavers ; these tips can apply for men too yaknow, use your brain cells please. Let me tell you a story. My man took on a half dozen punk thieves last night outside a bar because they stole from him. Anyway, how many other men do you think helped him out as he got his ass kicked? How many others were willing to stand up for what was right, to go against the odds, to fight for honor? Think about that for a minute.
Am I the only one to think that some of these tips are good yet then the other tips are pretty much impossible to follow. I sadly read these articles instead. My gfs hate him and no longer talk to me. I am or once saw myself as a very self independent working professional woman. Am I really making this worse than it should be??? How can I have him see things from my point of view without becoming a cave woman???
I was raised Egalitarian and son of these things dont reflect me. I dont want nor do I need a woman cooking for me. This is nice and all, but it sounds like it needs a few pointers. First, since when is being feminist bad? Not the clingy, connected at the hip appreciated, but you get the point I hope. It kinda works both ways really, in my opinion. Hate all you want.
This is pretty good.! I learn more how to be a good girlfriend. I well do this … Thanks J.! I am having trouble in my relationship mainly because I cannot to 21…. He like me wearing make-up, skirt, and having long hair. How can girls be feminine so naturally without being told? I like boyish girls. These are all valid in finding a guy, but if you want someone to love you for who you are, you have to be who you are first.
P There must be tips for things every guy should do to be the perfect boyfriend. Oh, thank you Jason. I will definitely try this with Tyga. Actually I already am! This article has great points, but this is only what one type of men want, and seemingly written about immature men. This is whats wrong with young girls. The only thing, and I mean the only thing, I nag my boyfriend about is his drinking and weight.
It keeps him on track. One thing that makes women go crazy with excitement is a man who takes care of his physic. Beer bellies are disgusting.
Are you guys for real? Every woman that follows these stupid rules are stupid. This list is exactly what I as a gal look for in a boyfriend. This article thankfully let me go of that guilt and embrace leaving him when he no longer continues to be better than other guys. I have become a complete monster from insecurity.
Thank you so much I now believe i can change and become a good person again. I feel like stabbing my eyes out after reading this. It depends on what type of guy you have, and what things he likes. Lol I just wanted to comment something! Just wanted to point out one thing however. In fact, a good man is also a feminist! Feminism is believing in gender equality, and rejecting discrimination against women! Being a feminist does not predisposition you to having a more difficult time finding love as you say.
On the contrary, it is the foundation for a deeper and more enriched connection. Feminists can also be feminine…. As well as interesting, intelligent, sexy and ambitious. Very feminine and sweet, I love to love and be loved in return. I believe real happiness comes from relationships, family and friends. So please, ladies, have more respect. You knw what, i tink this is it……you sounded wow i tink am gonna try some of this tips it might help out.
Jason ve seen many stuff i mean articles and books but ve never got something good and helpful like this. My friebds think I am stuck in the 50s but this is just who I am. And my alpha male boyfriend loves it. We have been together for 7 months. He wants to find over every night. He takes great care of me and vice versa. I loved it because I have a boyfriend who I adore and all of the things listed here comes natural from me to him.
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Gotta love this guy for telling it like it is about these women these days. This feminist crap and women becoming manlier is honestly not okay. I love all of the tips and I feel like this article could really help me in my own relationship.
My boyfriend hates it. After reading this, I see how that is a complete turn off. And if my boyfriend really loves me, he will love me even when I have a few extra pounds. So u and ur terrible advice can go to hell. This is seriously terrible advice. Give a BJ to guys and be amazing in bed to win a guys attention? Women should be encouraged to be pure and chaste not only the body but with the heart.
Girls should originally be treated with respect and dignity. I am proud to have stayed single and kept my chastity because of my faith and my love for Christ. Waiting for the right guy is always going to be hard and rare because in the end that guy has to be someone special. I would go to church, study the Bible, and get married at church. Talk to women of faith and take religion seriously. When you respect yourself and truly value yourself, then you treat other as well.
The guy does not have to be that perfect person, the job starts with you. If you want to meet the perfect guy, the job still starts with you. I hope you give more solemn and carefully thought out advise to young women. This article was far worse than what I thought it would be. There are sections in there that make legitimate sense, such as loving yourself or valuing your happiness, but then you completely contradict yourself by saying a woman should not share all of her feelings, including the sad ones.
How is that supposed to make her happy? How is being forced into discomfort for the sole sake of maintaining appearance a happy relationship? Just more sexist drivel from a clueless guy. Okay, I read the warning in the beginning that this would be offensive and parts of it were, a lot of it I could understand, and most of it I could look past.
But then he implied that it is unattractive or unfeminine for women to wear flats and pants. So like, regular shit that most women wear everyday….
Are we supposed to wear heels and skirts all the time then?? There other things I really disagreed with, but the absurdity of this comment was calling my name. Point me out and make fun of how silly I am! I was written with such laughable ignorance!
If I thought he might understand, I would try to be nicer and explain to him why he is wrong, but I know enough people like him to know that its most likely a waste of energy to try that… Did you read that last bit girls?
You could become exhausted with people trying to argue with the ones who think like this. Basically to be a perfect girlfriend, do everything and be everything to him… BTW, expect nothing…. For example why do you need to look prettier than his ex girlfriend? He chose you for a reason. The comment section cracks me up. I saw absolutely nothing wrong with your article at all. I needed these reminders. Sometimes we forget how they operate. Find someone who loves you for all you are.
We should all be encouraging girls to love themselves and know that every part of them is beautiful and to find a guy who sees all that beauty in them. What a bullshit article.
I hate to defend this article, because some of it is completely ludicrous, and somewhat misogynistic. However, the article is aimed towards women on how to be a perfect girlfriend. If it was aimed at men, it would hae a lot of changes that men would have to make. You should take care of yourself, not only for your boyfriend but for you. You should know how to cook. You should have a passion. You should have a life outside of your boyfriend. These are all good things, and they do make you more attractive to your boyfriend.
But make no mistake, that does not mean he is in charge of our relationship. Not every guy has exactly the same standards as this writer, however it is fine to see what this man wants from a woman, then consider who you are, your personality, and only use the tips that are right for you. You can even ask what your boyfriend wants from you, if he is worth your time and loves you, he will tell you that you do not have to change, and are perfect the way you are.
There are plenty of articles that go the other way, telling the boyfriend to change himself for his girl. Not all of this is good info. Like, be as beautiful as you can. If he loves you then looks dont rally matter. What can you talk about with your bf?
How to start a conversation! I have trouble keeping conversations? I agreed with at least maybe 3 things in this whole article. Reading this article upset me. Reading this made me feel like women just obey and do things that only pleasure their man. I personally do not feel that this article is right.
I thought this article was going to be a cute article about some nice things that you can do for your man but found it was just a huge sexist waste of my time. A relationship of four years everything was going perfect he really wants to marry BT in the second year of our relationship I was pregnant and my family knows this thing and he decided that I do Marry with other guy forcefully. That comment is extremely out of place.
Lol what an ass. This is the most sexist thing I have ever read and I really hope young girls out there are not reading this and taking it as gospel; shattering their self esteem and self worth and leading them to believe that all men are like this. I know my boyfriend well enough that if he was going to leave me at all it would be because I treat him badly not because I ate a kebab.
If he was going to leave me for any girl it would be one smarter, classier and kinder than me… like Kiera knightley or Kate Middleton. He would rather stay with someone with humour.. I make an effort to look beautiful because I want to and for my boyfriend but not because I think that defines our relationship.
Looks fade in time but to find someone who is your best friend.. When a guy respects you and loves you then you will naturally want to make them happy without feeling like a servant as this post suggests. Stay true to yourself and remember being you is enough xx. This is totally awful advice…. Sorry dude but most of you are all disappointing and a self respecting woman would never change her entire life just to meet a mans shallow needs.
This is why we need feminism. A perfect women wont change herself and her personality to please a shallow man and his needs. A real and respectful man love and takes care of his women regardless of how she looks like or cooks.. I think the whole idea of a perfect girlfriend is dumb. This article is very offensive to women and I tried not to get offended but the next point was progressively more offensive.
For a change you guys could try to be the perfect boyfriends. Wow…this article was clearly written by a guy. Why should women have to obey your every need and want? You both are different people with different goals and ambitions in life with different upbringings and cultures.
If you respect your woman chances are she will be the perfect girlfriend and do some of these things listed willingly. I used to like YouQueen, but your articles are becoming more and more sexist and degrading to women.
TBH this article is so funny and true right now I feel my relationship is ending and hearing a guys point of view on what they seek from a women and what women should do to understand there man and keep him from making a whole in there relationship. Why are we fighting? I thought this may be a joke while reading.. Be a better version of you.
Scratch that , you just have to be better than yourself and ever other living girl out there- or at least the on he my date after you! LOL I thaught this article was satire: D If this is serious, it is very hateful torwards women. So sorry this article was obviously written by a loser who got dumped for another man, or one of those manicured, hair gel, nose plucking dudes. Either way your advise sounds like what a pimp would say to a new born hoe.
I want to be the perfect girl friend to my boy friend. I have an idea…how about instead of focusing on how to be a perfect girlfriend, try being a better person in general?
If you want to help people, help them. If you want to take care of yourself, do it. I do think for my BF because I love him. Not because I want something in return.
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