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Submissive Training Series 4 Book Series. All Formats Kindle Edition. Sandra never thought she'd cheat. And never with a co-worker. But her husband is away for weeks at a time and Sandra feels her marriage and her love drifting apart.
Desperate for passion, Sandra discovers a connection with Grant and she also learns his dark secret: Grant is into the bondage lifestyle. As their cheating relationship blossoms, Sandra begins probing Grant, hoping to understand what bondage is all about.
Grant is more than willing to show her, and Sandra soon discovers her own excitement as she explores a brand new world. She discovers that Grant has always wanted a Submissive. His own wife isn't into bondage at all. An idea leads Sandra into making a deal.
She will be his submissive, if he will be her master. It's a price she is willing to pay in exchange for the physical and emotional connection she has with him, and she knows it's something Grant has always wanted.
But she had to keep it hidden from her husband. Not only that, but Grant has some conditions before he agrees to take Sandra as his own. First, she must prove her love and devotion through a series of tasks he will give her. Sandra, uncertain if she can complete these missions, fears she will lose everything with Grant is she fails.
When she receives her first mission, her heart sinks. She will have to do something for her husband that she hasn't done in years; something she finds repulsive and gross. Not only that, she has to send pictures to Grant as proof. Sandra wonders if she can endure the degrading humiliation of what Grant wants her to do. If she truly wants to be his submissive, she must obey his commands and prove it. Books in This Series 4 Books Hide books already in your library 0.
Subscribers read for free. Buy now with 1-Click. Sandra has completed her first mission for Grant. It wasn't easy, but she emailed him the pictures. The fact that she didn't really follow his instructions to the letter comes back to haunt her.
Grant is not happy. There are consequences to disobedience. Annoyed that Sandra skirted the rules, Grant devises a series of humiliating punishments, that culminate in Sandra having to redo her first mission There is no cutting corners now.
But can Sandra obey her master? Can she endure the embarrassment and humiliation? The future of their relationship is in her hands now. Sandra must dig deep to find the courage to carry out master's wishes.
She is willing to do anything to prove she can be a submissive, but this time, is the price too high? This book can be read as a stand alone, but is better understood and builds upon the story of book one, "Oral Arguments". She never expected her husband to be in the audience watching as she performed on the stage.
She performed an act that no married woman should ever do with anyone but her husband, all for the enjoyment of leering men. Her fear quickly turns to excitement. She likes having her husband watch. But before she can explore those thoughts, Sandra must first deal with a jealous husband on the long drive home. Will he be angry? Will he be hurt? Will he be intrigued?
Is her marriage over? Whatever the case, Sandra wasn't expecting her husband to catch her. She never considered the possibility. She quickly finds her life becoming a tangled mesh of lies and deceit as she desperately tries to both appease her secret and demanding lover, and also keep her husband in the dark.
To further complicate her fetish soap opera, Sandra is given another mission from Master. This one is even more humiliating than before. All the while balancing new demands from her husband to spice up their marriage.
How much more of this can she take? Sandra will have to make some humiliating compromises in order to stay one step ahead of potential disaster. Will she keep Master happy? Can she keep her husband in the dark, even while discussing his desire to have a threesome? It seems everyone wants her body now. Book Three in the Submissive Training Series continues the story of Sandra, a cheating wife, as she explores the world of BDSM with a co-worker, and pushes her limits in an effort to complete her initiation and finally become his Submissive.
Sandra wants to take her secret relationship even further, but Grant isn't quite done training her to be his personal submissive. Training another man's wife requires breaking her of a lot of bad habits and misconceptions.
It has to be done carefully, methodically, and of course, in a way that gives Grant the most pleasure. Sandra feels sexually frustrated performing endless initiation tasks for Grant and wonders when will he stop denying her the pleasure she so desperately craves? Permission is granted a woman only if she is obeys. There is one more pleasure a woman can give But can she do it? Can Sandra give up something she wouldn't even give her own husband? Grant is ten times the man her husband is.
A man like that demands respect and loyalty. A man like that is worthy of such a gift. To complete her initiation, and prove her love, Sandra is going to have to stretch her limits indeed. Customer reviews There are no customer reviews yet. Share your thoughts with other customers. Write a customer review. Biography Visit my YouTube channel and subscribe! JJ Stuart on Writing JJ Stuart loves to write dirty stories and has been scribbling away at it since he first discovered a stack of Penthouse Forum magazines as a teenager.
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Rachel spent a month or so asking her husband to order her around. And they both agreed this was an anathema to the people God created them to be.
Some of us ladies are bossy. Some of us ladies are nurturers. Some lucky ladies are both. I am of the bossy variety. Whereas your dad is gonna cuddle with you on the couch and remind you that you are loved, vomit-covered jammies and all. If you want to be submissive, have at it. We see this happen a lot with the New Testament household codes, found in various forms in Ephesians, Colossians, and 1 Peter. But to the people who first heard these letters read aloud in their churches, the words of Peter and Paul would have struck them as both familiar and strange, a sort of Christian remix on familiar Greco-Roman philosophy that positioned the male head of house as a the rightful ruler over his subordinate wives, children, and slaves.
The plot thickens when we pay attention to some of the recurring characters in the Epistles and see a progression toward more freedom and autonomy for slaves like Onesimus and women like Nympha, Priscilla, Junia, and Lydia.
And this book is million-times more amazing than the Biblical Womanhood one. Take that, all those college boys who tried to convince me, an old-school Baptist who believes you can interpret scripture any way you want to, that women should be submissive.
And we ladies are parading around outside the home. At least in the US anyway…. Leaning into the talents and personality traits you arrived with straight from the womb. Some of those traits led me to discern in college that those boys were full of shit. Anytime boys attempt to entrap young women — or entice other young women to do the socializing for them — you can be sure that the patriarchy is smiling proud and Jesus is rolling his eyes.
The husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to his church, not by domineering but by cherishing. See how different they can be? Read them for yourselves. Instead combine all the words that God has given the authors and let those words help you understand scripture even more. I hope you are like me and you are in a good and healthy marriage.
Marriage is not meant to be perfect because we are far from perfect and we are so different from each other disagree? We break the tension by apologizing first. We solve the disagreements or different point of views by compromising. We get up and go to the other person by putting our pride and need to be right aside.
We seek to solve the confusion and frustration even if that means being open to changing ourselves. I believe as women we are created, wired and called to be in tune and sensitive to what is happening with our husband. I believe we play a crucial role in created an emotional stable household so it is a peaceful and refreshing atmosphere where we can focus on relationships with God, each other and our children. Is your husband and your relationship with him not worth submitting, understanding, supporting and yielding?
We have this really bad habit as Christ followers to read one verse take it exactly how it is and call it a day. It is the ultimate meeting of the masculine and the feminine. You will know the difference. The ultimate problem with telling generations of young women to put career first is that the workplace does not care about you and never will. It is not pro-woman.
It is not pro-human. The workplace cares about your output and productivity, but it will never love you like a husband in a relationship can. And considering that us women are naturally emotional creatures, a marriage we invest ourselves in will ultimately always have more capacity to make us happy than a job that can kick us onto the street without warning and without sympathy.
If you are concerned with never getting your way if you become submissive to your husband, consider that your husband will want to make you happy when you are an easy-going, gracious wife.
Be kind and polite to your husband, and he will respond in kind. Your charms will do more for you as a wife than any complaining or fighting will. It might sound odd at first, but gentleness and femininity are elixirs for men. They cannot experience those womanly qualities anywhere else but in a relationship. The competitiveness of the working world and even the dynamic between his friends is usually macho and aggressive, and a man's relationship is the one place he can really get solace from all of that.
You husband will be grateful to you for showing your softer, submissive side. I was fed the same lies as millions of other women growing up in the 80s and 90s -- put career first and look for marriage later, because women supposedly fared so much better with independence.
Well, my career gave me a lovely paycheck but exposed me to endless corporate battles, tough deadlines, work enemies, and stress. In short, it was everything my character was not set up to deal with. My character is extremely feminine. When I traded my paper-pushing for a husband, I found that satisfaction my character had been looking for -- that right fit.
I found I fell naturally into a role of being the protected, spoiled, submissive wife to my leader, dominant, provider, protective husband.
Using a business analogy, I think of my husband as my own special client, one that provides me with mutual rewards. In The Surrendered Wife , author Laura Doyle provides examples of how to fit the submissive wife lifestyle into your relationship until it becomes second-nature, and you reap those mutual rewards!
She goes in-depth into how to enjoy submissiveness with intimacy, with feeling protected by your strong husband, and with feeling free to be your most feminine self in your marriage, despite the modern influences against femininity. Men by nature want to feel heroic. It is why they come to our rescue when we are in need.
So let him protect you, provide for you, and hold you when you are in deep sorrow. You will love him all the more for it. A submissive wife accepts her husband's heroism happily.
Your husband will often complain about work, about politics, about the state of the world. Men always have a vision of how the world around them should ultimately be run. You will often internally disagree with what he says, for example, even thinking he is wrong in how he handled a disagreement at work. Acknowledge what your husband feels, saying only the minimum.
This serves to allow him to express his stresses while also relaxing him, knowing he won't have another debate on his hands to add to his stress. Your husband wants to come home to the attractive woman that you are. Keep yourself in shape as best you can, wear a feminine hairstyle medium to long length , and wear form-fitting clothes -- even tight sweats will do. You don't need to wear makeup.
Just keep your face fresh looking maintaining your eyebrows, for example. You must, of course, like the idea of taking this route. Realize your attention to the home in creating an oasis of warmth will create a special world of love that nothing the outside world can break. Being a traditional housewife is a joy unto itself. You will not have the hour workweek deadlines that so many other woman have. You won't be frantically trying to balance commuting, workload, and stress with the cleaning, cooking, decorating, and lovemaking you need to make a house a home.
You might have less money coming into the house, but you will still have a happier marriage. Maybe he'll tell you he's in the mood for his favorite cake or that he wants the floor vacuumed. Instead of saying, "Do it yourself," or "Yeah, when I get done the million things I already have to do," just say "Alright honey," or "I'll make a note of it.
You will often naturally cry, but anger is also usually best expressed as sadness, even if it isn't natural. If your husband makes you irate with something he says, perhaps it's critical, belligerent, or he's just getting too loud for your tastes, instead of letting a battle ensue, bring on some tears.
Tears have a way of either softening his mood, quieting him down, or making him walk away. Every married couple will go through bad moods and fights, even very bad ones.
Maybe he'll still grumble after you cry a little, but you will have achieved the ultimate goal: If you don't feel the urge to cry, excusing yourself and leaving the room can work as well. Often this is after work, especially on Friday nights. If you need something from your husband or even have to give him bad news, realizing when he can best absorb the information without getting stressed out will often make the difference in how he feels, and in turn, how you will feel. This relationship lifestyle will not be for everyone.
Sometimes the husband or the wife just does not fit the profile of someone who can be happy being dominant or submissive. In the end you need to judge for yourself the steps you wish to take and what traits you are comfortable adopting into in your life. I know it would be the best sex of my life. What can I do to not be frustrated? But I am still unsatisfied. This is a desire of a lot of feminine women. It can be frustrating if you feel your husband doesn't want to partake in a more aggressive role.
In this case being submissive with your husband also means you would be understanding in his desires not to role play in this way, which it seems you already understand. But a trick some women use is to get their husbands "riled up" with arguing to bring out more aggression in them.
But this could backfire if you don't think he'll respond in a sexual manner and instead might just walk off aggravated. The best suggestion I have is that when you're in the heat of lovemaking to imagine your fantasy of him being dominant playing out.
Many women close their eyes during sex because they are not only enjoying the feeling but letting their imagination take over during the more exciting moments. You can also bring yourself to orgasm with toys by yourself while imagining this. As a man I agree with much of what you say. However, as a 'modern' male I feel awkward with the idea that a woman should submit sexually to her husband.
So does my wife. How can we shift our mindset? If you find the idea awkward and your wife does as well, there is no need to bring submissiveness into your intimacy. The point is not to make anyone uncomfortable but to put the male in charge of the lovemaking while staying fully aware of your wife's intimate limits and turn-offs. You'll be running the show while making sure both of you are satisfied. This might ease your mind. I tend to let my mouth get me in trouble. I always have to win the argument, but my boyfriend is very dominant.
What are some things I can do when we have a disagreement that will allow my voice to be heard without making him feel like less of a man? It's easy to let pride and emotion take over. If the problem is yelling or raising your voice when you are arguing, you can first try to say the same things but in a business-like tone. That means just using a neutral tone, which can take some of the negative energy out of what you say. If what you're saying still sounds bad no matter what, you can use phrases like, "I understand", "How do you feel about You also win the argument when you realize you've managed to be successful in neutralizing a potential blowup or even better, in making your boyfriend feel closer to you with your conversational and caring finesse.
Most importantly, pick only the most important things to disagree about. A lot of things we all argue about in the end are not life-changing priorities. I am a strong, independent woman with a career that won't change, but my husband and I are looking at this lifestyle for us.
How do I quiet the independent woman in me and be submissive? I am lucky to have an even stronger husband. You can try integrating some aspects of submissiveness into your life, such as in the bedroom. You can also give up decision-making on some topics that you find frustrating. For me, it's home repairs. I just defer to my husband on that issue because he actually knows what he's talking about versus me on this topic, and I also hate home repair issues.
So basically, find his strengths, and address topics of concern that weigh you down that he is better at handling, and be submissive on those issues. You will then be learning and putting submissiveness into your relationship without sacrificing independence in areas that would make you feel vulnerable.
I plan to marry at the end of the year. I notice I try to take control and he gets upset. How can I consciously do better?
Recently I heard this story about Calvin Coolidge and his wife (told by a and marriage, some of us look over at the couch and think "Not the same old rooster"! both your own—if you are a woman reading this article, or as the partner who .. enjoy more intense sexual pleasure when you take each other and never tire of. I am a submissive wife to my dominant husband, and this marriage has been If you are not a naturally submissive woman, you might wonder as you've read along career first is that the workplace does not care about you and never will. . But this could backfire if you don't think he'll respond in a sexual. Don't believe me – just have a look at your spouse. As a married women I would read through this chapter (really quickly) and thought started to really find out what the bible says about being a wife (better late then never!) If you look at verse 1 and then jump down to verse 25 you'll see stuff like this.