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But there is a range of expectations for what a "masculine" body should look like -- and negative associations with the ones that fall short. According to mental health experts , men may have a harder time accessing communication tools to express their insecurities and work through them. Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. Men have body insecurities, too, and that's nothing to be ashamed of.

Similarly, if I have my shirt off, I try to stay lying down or reclined so that my torso is elongated. I also flex my arms and abs almost constantly. The soreness and tension from working out makes me feel better.

I've always wanted a much leaner body type, so even as small as I am, it makes me wish I was thinner. Many of these conversations have brought me to the conclusion that I may have some minor type of dysmorphia. I take care of myself and exercise vigorously and regularly, but know that I'm not 30 anymore. I see a lot of guys my age whose bodies look, well, sad, and I am determined not to let that happen.

This is embarrassing, but I will sometimes press my fingers on the side of my stomach to try to convince myself my abs are 'tight. I do notice that most of my friends are married and overweight -- not sure if there's a correlation between those two facts, but as a result, we don't talk much about body issues. I struggled with self-esteem as a young, chubby child. But I had a few important experiences -- like having to use communal Japanese baths and swimming competitively -- that made me quite comfortable with bare skin by the time I got to high school.

Recently, I've been struggling more with that confidence. I often feel somewhat weak and flimsy and wish I had a more powerful body. I'm really grateful to have people around me who are very open about their own body issues -- which is the key. Once one friend starts sharing, it sets the space for everyone else to do so as well. In my younger years, I was really into weight-lifting, and I know first hand the costs of letting your body go and the uphill battle I face now from doing so.

My son repeatedly asked me if I was pregnant when he was younger and now knows that I am very unhealthy, because he is taught in school to not eat what I eat or 'I will become fat like daddy.

I would be embarrassed to mention it [to my friends]. I am worried what they would think, not only because I am actually very fat, but how weird it would be to mention something like that in a man-to-man conversation? It's simply not acceptable. But nowadays, I really like how I look. I'm also definitely more focused than ever on how my body feels. But getting heavily tattooed and working out hugely changed the way I think about it.

So many of the stories that were hidden inside of me -- things I loved, things I was scared of, things that haunted me -- were finally visible, and my body finally felt like it belonged to me because I had a hand in making it the way I wanted it to be.

Now, when I take my shirt off, I'm happy with what's there. I feel that my body is a form of art. There are some areas I wish to improve upon, but I definitely love my body type. Until I was in late college, I had an unbelievably fast metabolism, which I realize for many would be a blessing. For me, it left me looking, as my friends once described, 'like a Holocaust survivor. I occasionally go to the gym, which I think has helped my confidence somewhat. I'm still aware of where I can improve and personal 'imperfections,' but for the most part, I'm OK.

I do chat with friends about how I should get back to a gym and get more exercise, just because I'm not getting any younger. It feels unnatural to be shirtless. I feel as though all eyes are on me and no one is liking what they see. I'm 6'4'' on the outside and 5'4'' on the inside.

I feel better about my body now than I did in the past. I don't want a perfect body. I want my body to look fit, but also lived in.

Having said that, I run 18 to 20 miles per week and do bodyweight exercises six days per week -- and feel as though if I miss a day, it's all going to fall apart. Due to my skinny lankiness, I have always received the opposite kinds of comments, with most telling me to eat lots of cheeseburgers every day.

When I was younger, it annoyed me. Now I just smile and tell them I absolutely would if it wouldn't kill me. With that said, I decided after doing the photos that I want to get back to my college 'fighting weight' of not only for health reasons, but feeling better about myself as well.

I keep my shirt on, in no small part because, now that I am single again, I think most women prefer a guy in a nice shirt versus shirtless. In high school, it was, 'I'm so skinny, I need to bulk up,' but now it's, 'I'm still so skinny, but I have a belly. Having skinny arms and a post-college beer belly is far from the muscular male archetype. I talk to my girlfriend sometimes, but with friends, not really. Straight-guy friend groups aren't immediate sources of empathy and consideration, from my experiences.

My closest Asian male friend works out a lot and has an incredible body, so sometimes I feel ashamed when I'm around him. He has my ideal body, and as an Asian male, his own masculinity makes me feel inadequate. Lately, working [in media] has made me more comfortable in my own two shoes than any other time in my life. I have no idea why, but it seems learning about these spaces and ideas helps. With women I [discuss body image]. They're always quite fruitful.

With men, on the other hand, I avoid these discussions as men are constantly trying to avoid looking weak. Being healthy is the goal, and my body looking better is a perk.

I can eat pretty unhealthy and not gain a ton of weight. People get angry about that, so I try not to talk about it. My feelings haven't changed about my body -- I've always been pretty comfortable.

Although I have realized I have to workout these days to maintain the same shape. In the past, I really didn't think much about how I looked shirtless -- I just did it.

But when I moved to New York, I found myself in a much more body-conscious community than my small college campus.

So, I got a gym membership, worked out a lot, ate well and felt good about how I looked. But I've fallen out of that routine over the past year, and I'm having a hard time getting back into it.

I'll wear my pants higher to tuck things in, and wear oversized or boxy shirts that hide my stomach and upper arms. If I'm really not feeling so hot, I just don't go to certain places where I know people will be shirtless. So being a gay man in New York in the summer can be difficult.

I don't remember a moment in my life when I felt totally comfortable with my body. It's been especially bad since leaving college, possibly because of the insecurity that comes with new friends, new living arrangements and living in a new town. However, in , I've started to become more secure with my body and more confident. I rarely open up about it unless it's with close friends.

The handful I do talk to always give me the same reaction: Oh, you're not fat! It's nice to hear, but no matter how often I hear it, I don't believe it. Some friends even tell me they think of me as 'athletic.

It's not that I'd rather them say, Yeah, you could stand to lose a few, but it makes it more difficult for me to process my insecurity against friends' reassurance. Meet Our Body Image Heroes.

Beauty was very much on my mind. I had a father that would -- we would look up at billboards and he would say, "That's one version of beauty. You're another version of beauty. And she's a version of beauty. She's another version of beauty. I've met some of the most beautiful people, and sadly their heart is just not smiling, and that destroys it all. And then other people that aesthetically aren't considered as beautiful are the most gorgeous people I've ever seen in my life. Go to mobile site.

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Once one friend starts sharing, it sets the space for everyone else to do so as well. In my younger years, I was really into weight-lifting, and I know first hand the costs of letting your body go and the uphill battle I face now from doing so. My son repeatedly asked me if I was pregnant when he was younger and now knows that I am very unhealthy, because he is taught in school to not eat what I eat or 'I will become fat like daddy. I would be embarrassed to mention it [to my friends].

I am worried what they would think, not only because I am actually very fat, but how weird it would be to mention something like that in a man-to-man conversation? It's simply not acceptable. But nowadays, I really like how I look. I'm also definitely more focused than ever on how my body feels. But getting heavily tattooed and working out hugely changed the way I think about it.

So many of the stories that were hidden inside of me -- things I loved, things I was scared of, things that haunted me -- were finally visible, and my body finally felt like it belonged to me because I had a hand in making it the way I wanted it to be.

Now, when I take my shirt off, I'm happy with what's there. I feel that my body is a form of art. There are some areas I wish to improve upon, but I definitely love my body type.

Until I was in late college, I had an unbelievably fast metabolism, which I realize for many would be a blessing. For me, it left me looking, as my friends once described, 'like a Holocaust survivor. I occasionally go to the gym, which I think has helped my confidence somewhat. I'm still aware of where I can improve and personal 'imperfections,' but for the most part, I'm OK.

I do chat with friends about how I should get back to a gym and get more exercise, just because I'm not getting any younger. It feels unnatural to be shirtless. I feel as though all eyes are on me and no one is liking what they see.

I'm 6'4'' on the outside and 5'4'' on the inside. I feel better about my body now than I did in the past. I don't want a perfect body. I want my body to look fit, but also lived in. Having said that, I run 18 to 20 miles per week and do bodyweight exercises six days per week -- and feel as though if I miss a day, it's all going to fall apart.

Due to my skinny lankiness, I have always received the opposite kinds of comments, with most telling me to eat lots of cheeseburgers every day. When I was younger, it annoyed me. Now I just smile and tell them I absolutely would if it wouldn't kill me. With that said, I decided after doing the photos that I want to get back to my college 'fighting weight' of not only for health reasons, but feeling better about myself as well.

Most aren't trying to lose weight -- they're documenting their physique, he said. It's a far cry from the male celebrities of the s -- think Spencer Tracey or Robert Mitchum -- who wore their heftiness as a sign of financial success or a way to demonstrate masculinity, Addis said.

Some psychologists and trend watchers said the male muscle obsession only grew during the last few years. As the economy struggled, men were sent looking for aspects of their lives they could define and control. Body image is, at times, the only thing. It can create this obsessiveness," said Sarah Toland, senior health editor for Men's Journal.

James Mahalik, a psychology professor at Boston College, said some men develop powerful, physically intimidating bodies as a display of masculinity in face of threats.

But becoming a father pushes some men to lead healthier lives -- and as a consequence, develop a healthier-looking body, too. But in a world of changing ideals and rising obesity rates, what is it they're all idealizing? Lately, big and bulky has been pushed to the wayside, and the swimmer's physique reigns supreme, editors of men's magazines and websites say. The male silhouette landing on magazine covers and action flicks is tall, lean, agile and fit.

It's a physique that's more attainable for most men than the beefy-torso-and-chicken-leg look of the past. They want to look great, but they don't want to look like they spend too much time on it -- but they know they need to spend time on it. Nygaard points to actor Ryan Reynolds as an example of making the effortless look like an art form -- always the right amount of scruff and perfectly tousled hair, even if they use a beard trimmer to shave down scruff and pomade for the slept-in look.

Rather than the clothes themselves, it is the fit that displays the effort they put into their appearance, and this is showing up in the workplace as well. At this level, you are quite close to your maximum natural genetic potential in terms of muscle growth. The gym has to be your second home; you have to be super disciplined and have very good knowledge of both training and nutrition.

Bodybuilding is your lifestyle and you must be dedicated to it in order to get to this type of physique. The best examples that pop into my head right now are Matt Ogus and Chris Jones. You will stand out from a crowd and probably people will approach you to compliment you or to ask for advice. You are a walking superhero for the average looking people.

At this point, your strength should be quite impressive. Bench pressing twice your body weight for a couple of reps is not something uncommon.

Getting the type of physique you are after is not a matter of knowledge or genetics. Just like you know that you need to learn X and Y to pass an exam, just like you know that you need to make X sales in order to get the performance bonus at work. Yeah, you need to know your way around calories, macros, dieting, sets, reps, workout routines, but those are just the details which you probably know already more or less.

Here's what the 'ideal' body for men and women looks like. Tim Olds, University of In this case, higher is better. Astronomical is better still. Research suggests women prefer men with bigger muscles And it's upper body strength that women are looking for, including having wider. Eleven Different Male Body Types In Lineup Athleticism occurs less often as it requires a lot of hard work to look athletic. Shoulder slopes can be uneven, one hip can be higher than the other, legs can be bowed, and.