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Be sexy but not sexual. Don't be a prude but don't be a slut. These are the cultural messages that barrage teenage girls. In movies and magazines, in music and advice columns, girls are portrayed as the object or the victim of someone else's desire--but virtually never as someone with acceptable sexual feelings of her own. What teenage girls make of these contradictory messages, and what they make of their awakening sexuality--so distant from and yet so susceptible to cultural stereotypes--emerges for the first time in frank and complex fashion in Deborah Tolman's Dilemmas of Desire.
A unique look into the world of adolescent sexuality, this book offers an intimate and often disturbing, sometimes inspiring, picture of how teenage girls experience, understand, and respond to their sexual feelings, and of how society mediates, shapes, and distorts this experience. In extensive interviews, we listen as actual adolescent girls--both urban and suburban--speak candidly of their curiosity and confusion, their pleasure and disappointment, their fears, defiance, or capitulation in the face of a seemingly imperishable double standard that smiles upon burgeoning sexuality in boys yet frowns, even panics, at its equivalent in girls.
As a vivid evocation of girls negotiating some of the most vexing issues of adolescence, and as a thoughtful, richly informed examination of the dilemmas these girls face, this readable and revealing book begins the critical work of understanding the sexuality of young women in all its personal, social, and emotional significance.
In the constant din of pseudoscientific claims about sex, arrogant punditry, and moralizing fear-mongering, the voices consistently missing are those of teenagers, and especially teenage girls. By listening carefully to these girls as they navigate their own sexual desires, balancing agency and ambivalence, Deborah Tolman dramatically enlarges and enriches the conversation we should be having about sex and sexuality. Michael Kimmel, Professor of Sociology, SUNY Stony Brook, and author of Manhood in America Dilemmas of Desire challenges one of our most fundamental beliefs about adolescent sexual activity--that it causes problems, especially for young women, and ought to be prevented.
In this nuanced and insightful book, based on extended interviews, Deborah Tolman argues that it is the failure to recognize the reality of female sexual desire that is at the heart of the "problem. Simply asserting that would be revolutionary. But Dilemmas of Desire goes much further, allowing girls to explain their sexuality from their own perspectives: Tolman's work is essential to a true understanding of female adolescence.
Peggy Orenstein, author of Schoolgirls: Young Women, Self-Esteem, and the Confidence Gap Listening to and appreciating the depth of girls' desire--complex, powerful, sometimes pleasure-seeking, sometimes afraid--is indeed revolutionary. Deborah Tolman has done it, with sensitivity and honesty, and that makes Dilemmas of Desire a gift to adolescent girls and adult women as well.
By inviting girls to tell us about their experience of aliveness in their bodies and their longing for connection, Tolman invites all of us to reexamine our sexual stories, and better understand our own sexualities. Jordan, Wellesley Centers for Women It's rare that there's a national debate in which public opinion and social science are so clearly on the same and losing side. Eighty percent of parents want comprehensive sexuality education in the schools; most social science points to the positive impact of full sexuality education on public health and family and community well being.
And yet, in this nation, a relatively small band of ideologues prevails over the real wishes of the public. Dilemmas of Desire is a powerful tool in the struggle for sexuality education and improved sexual health for young women and young men too , published at just the right time.
Michelle Fine, author of The Unknown City: Lives of Poor and Working-Class Young Adults What fascinated me in Deborah Tolman's research was her discovery of how much girls have to say about what they say they can't talk about.
Taking the bold step of asking girls about their own experiences of sexual desire, Tolman asks us to consider the quandaries girls face when they feel desire, and act on it, and also when they do not.
Dilemmas of Desire is a path-breaking book, opening new conversations about girls, boys, and what it means to be human. Carol Gilligan, author of In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women's Development A thought provoking exploration of young women's relationships to sexuality. Deborah Tolman elicits rich stories of bodies, emotions, and desires, and offers an intriguing analysis of these complex and ambivalent narratives.
Vance, Columbia University For all the panicky ink devoted to teen sex, until now there has been no academic study on what teenage girls actually want.
The teenage voices she has collected are articulate and refreshing Publishers Weekly "Girls are the objects of boys' sexual desires and have no desires of their own.
Basing her research on extensive interviews with both suburban and urban teens, Tolman investigates how young women's first sexual experiences may be influenced by societal pressure to dissociate from their own bodies and desires Tolman shows the chilling dangers--for individuals and society--when girls are afraid to take ownership of their sexuality And she offers ideas for how change can happen Parents and teachers alike will find much to contemplate and borrow from in this fascinating account.
Gillian Engberg Booklist Tolman bases this qualitative study of teenage sexuality on what she calls the "listening guide" method of research a method she helped pioneer , in which she records interviews on various topics and then reads through them several times looking for different themes. She drew her sample of 31 girls from high school juniors in two different settings, one urban and one suburban Though reluctant to be honest about their sexuality in a group setting, in part because of potential gossip, the girls discussed their feelings with Tolman in a one-on-one setting.
The quandaries the girls face--whether they assert, embrace, or dismiss sexual desire--is Tolman's theme. Though the girls told her they felt sexual desire, they at first often denied it. They fear getting pregnant or being labeled as sexually promiscuous The book is a powerful tool in the struggle for improved sexuality education, since even the most sophisticated of girls seem to lack basic kinds of information.
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Kindle Edition Verified Purchase. Having a teenager really isn't easy in this day and age, but I try to be understanding. So I bought this book to try to understand some of the craziness that's been happening in her life. This book helped me to at least put a positive light on the fact that girls will be girls, but they don't always understand how to deal with it. Letting her acknowledge that she has sexual desire has helped us to deal with some serious issues before she got into too much hot water.
It's well written, easy to read, and very informative. First of all, if you are not an academic student , nor psychologist, nor parent, then you need to find a book cover to avoid people taking you out of context and misconstruing your motives when reading this book. There are some interesting concepts like "safe place" and "narrative of ruination" broached in the book to the first timer in the field of psychology related to sex education. Implementing the author's recommendations are impossible in the U.
I found the interviews interesting yet the fact that the author couldn't get a large enough sample size to include asians and Indians from India was a yawning chasm in her study. Her study focuses on black, white, and hispanic girls from an urban and suburban school in the U. Her findings can be easily implied to the minorities that refused to participate. I think that was just enough field work to convey her points across as to what should be done.
I did like the book I'll pay for classes teaching Ju Jitsu. One person found this helpful. This book shows how listening to young woman opens insights into how they see or fail to see and embrace their sexuality. The so-called moral debates about adolescent sexuality miss this piece: This book allows us to hear young women speak about that connection.
I love having things delivered immediately. But I also think this is a fantastic book. A must-read for parents and teenagers alike. Gets to the heart of the matter re: What a great book!
I actually ended up getting this book for a college class and once I started reading it, I couldn't put it down! This is a book young teen girls and moms need to read. It is an eye opening look at first time sexual experiences in a very open and honest way, not at all disgusting or overly graphic.
These are real girls sharing their personal stories, showing how society and family issues have shaped and defined what sex is supposed to be, how it should feel, and if it is right or wrong. The book is well written and an easy read. There isn't heavy philosophy, just enough to give solid evidence to back up what is being argued./p>
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