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How do I get myself to do that again? I would say the first thing to keep in mind is that how it happens can be different from person to person whether or not everyone is even capable of it is a matter of debate , so you might need to do some experimenting to figure out what, er, makes the dam burst for you. Like you, I have orgasms pretty easily and had wondered about trying to make myself squirt when one day it just happened, BAM! Took me completely by surprise, and now it happens almost every time we have certain kinds of sex.
Squirting often happens during orgasm, but it can also happen right before an orgasm or completely independent of one. Most guides to female ejaculation state that it goes hand-in-hand or fill in the appropriate body parts yourself with G-spot stimulation. Since then, for me, it happens frequently during oral sex and sometimes during fingering, and even once or twice while receiving anal sex.
See the picture to the left and this cool 3D vulva website. For me, the speed, pressure, motion, etc. Some guides also suggest teasing yourself or having a partner tease you and working up to an orgasm very slowly; if you already have orgasms pretty easily, this may or may not make a difference, but at the very least it will make for a fun afternoon of experimenting. And do you have any suggestions for what to call it? I enjoy reading, working out, playing Scrabble, watching cheesy movies, and cooking yummy vegetarian meals with my partner and Frisky Feminist co-author, Future Mr.
View all posts by paperispatient. It is possible to pee when having sex. I talked about this with many of my lady friends. When I get stimulated near my bladder, pee will come out. When it is in a spot that is deeper, water-like fluid comes out. It tastes neutral to sweet. Because I do have the disadvantage that I need really intense stimulation while I am also sensitive there, which means that it gets sour quickly and is often a bit painful though REALLY pleasurable as well.
Thus far, I experience happiness when I ejaculate, and satisfaction when my outer clitoris is stimulated to an O. And lastly, I second the relax thing. I second that clit stimulation can also bring on…. You must be logged in to post a comment. Contact Log In Register. Log in to Reply.
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I want to give my girlfriend the best sex life possible. Until recently… I asked her to send me a video of her while she was while I was away and I asked her if she felt more relaxed doing it by her self. And she said yes. I askd her what gets heron the mood and she just says thinking of me. And when I asked her what feels better, if I get her to orgasm or if she does it? Many women feel more relaxed and comfortable when masturbating alone rather than when their partner is there beside them.
This is usually because many women and men get performance anxiety. The feel like they need to put on a show for their partner, which makes it harder for them to relax and focus on enjoying themselves. I did my first squirt on my man. I was riding him but leaned back so it was angle up more n rubbed my self. I thought I peed but no lol. I really want to do this for my partner.
Everyone is different so based on experience ask him to turn his hand around and put pressure on the bottom of your vagina. Find the spot opposite your g spot then hit it hard and fast. I might have cummed a little but then after I peed? When I squirt it first feels like an orgasm, but then after a few seconds the gushing feeling just feels like peeing and if I try to stop the flow I usually can, like peeing, although afterwards if I go to the restroom I can still actually pee.
I have tryed alot of things and still I cant. I get that pee feeling then it go away.. I really dont know what to do. I feel like I want to give up. My boyfriend has tryed to and i get that pee feeling and he will tell me to let it go and it go away every time what else can I do…Am starting to feel bad over this..
The best place to try it is in the shower, when you are alone. This way you can immediately wash away any ejaculate with the shower water.
Did you get wet at all? My girlfriend wants me to make her squirt with my tongue. Is this possible and if so How? Hi Ash, It is possible, but a lot harder if you are not stimulating your G-Spot. So you could experiment with using your fingers or a toy to stimulate her G-Spot while using your tongue to massage he clit. The first time it was a lot and had no taste at all. Now when she does it has a musky odor. So I never thought I would be able to squirt but I have a new partner and we had a spur of the moment sex experience.
I want her to do it again. If you also want her, she is available. I squirter on my boyfriends face during 69 n it ruined it.
I felt like I peed on his face. He swears it had no taste or smell but it freaked me out. Just be open and honest with him. I know a lot of guys who really like. Personally I love when my gf squirts all over my faces while continuing to go down on me usually harder and deeper. What an amazing experience. Communication is the key to great sex. Hi, my wife and I have been trying to make her squirt for ages without success and to the point where my fingers start to hurt her.
When I suggested this subject to her she was a little apprehensive at first but warmed to the idea after reading a few forums. I can sometimes feel the inside of her vagina swelling, almost forcing my fingers out but the the upper wall eventually seems to move away from my fingers. She always empties her bladder before we try but always has to visit the bathroom when we are finished. What could we be doing wrong?
Could I be being too rough inside her? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. The first thing I would do her is get your wife to try it on her own. Then once she can do it on her own, get her to show you exactly what she did. However do keep in mind that not all women have the ability to squirt unfortunately. My fiance is the only man who has ever been able to make me cum or squirt. I only found this article bc I was trying to find out how to squirt during intercourse and not just while he was fingering me.
This article has been a great tutorial for us and our sex life is even more amazing than it already was and it was really really fucking amazing before.
Thanks for your help. I have found the use of Ben Wa balls very helpful in learning to isolate the necessary pelvic muscles to release the fluid. They are also very helpful in helping to stimulate and engorge the g spot. Begin by arousing your Vagina to the point where your vulva are pink and engorged and your clit is erect and sensitive. Then stop self arousal and insert both balls deep into the vagina.
You will feel the pressure of them against your swollen g spot when placement is correct. Then use your fingers to jiggle the balls against your g spot.
This feel good fairly fast. When the orgasm contractions begin, spread your legs wide and bear down pushing against the balls, try to push them out. This is the set of muscles needed to release the fluid. The guy, Chris was talking about his wife! Only a Jezebel type would say such a thing.
Plus if a woman is too up in her own head she could easily loose any orgasmic feeling. G spot orgasms are tricky. Keep practicing and have fun!! Comfort is crucial my husband made me pee on him to show me he didnt mind …its not that he likes pee but he wanted to show me it the pee meant nothing to him when it came to pleasing me….. After that i tried it by myself a few times then we had some crazy passionate sex and the squirting didnt stop i was amazed at what he made me do we were both soaked……after you make her truely comfortable it will happen and Some advice lay down some towels just incase.
Maybe you could come over and do it for me, lol, seriously though, please help! In other words, try not to focus on squirting. Rather, focus on just having a good time, while doing the things that will help to increase the chances of you squirting. You should feel a small amount of pressure building up when you stimulate your G Spot very similar to the feeling of needing to pee. Often you need to apply quite a bit of force to your G Spot to achieve this.
I love my ass being handled and teased to get me so aroused, not necessarily anal but a finger always feels amazing! I quite honestly believe that i am unable to squirt yet i manage to have some extremely intense orgasms that i am more than satisfied without a mess. I was about to point that out, then I seen your comment. My first squirt experience was from anal sex. Take your own advice. I have always squirted when masturbating but just in the past year or so started doing it while having sex with my hubby.
But I have trouble doing so during oral. When your man is going down on you, he will mostly be stimulating your clitoris. That was the first time I squirted without penetration of any kind, and surely will NOT be the last time! My problem seems to actually be the opposite of most of these other posts.
My boyfriend, and previous boyfriends have been able to make me squirt, no problem. The technique seems to be to finger me really hard, in an upward motion over and over. Sorry if that is graphic but it gets the job done. Try using a dildo, but…instead of using it with with you arm lying over your stomach, try putting your arm behind your back to use the dildo.
This will make it much easier to provide yourself with a lot of pressure on your G Spot area and hence make squirting a lot easier. I have never had a squirting orgasm i am trying i dont know if im doing it right or what but it just isnt happening. Hy, my girlfriend really want to be squirt….
How the hell can period blood harm your dick. You really must be thick if you believe that Should you even be having sex I wonder. I was perfectly relaxed and I had the urge to pee but nothing. I always empty my bladder before masturbation and sex. No squirting but the need to visit the bathroom after that. Is there something wrong? Keep trying and just focus on what feels good NOT on what you think will make you squirt. I know this sounds counter-intuitive, but it really helps.
It seems to help push your g-spot towards your fingers more and make it easier to squirt. There is something called reflux, a lot of women say that they have urinated before sex and get up multiple times to pee during sex, they are refluxing ejaclate into their bladder. I did this my entire life then met a man who I became a geyser with!
A lot is about comfort level, trust and more than anything else, technique. Most importantly, we women get freaked out when the urge to pee comes, you have to give birth to your orgasm…… meaning, let it go and it will come, you can push it out or just greatly relax and it will flow. Hi sean i came once for my fiancee and none of my past bfs couldnt make me cum or squirt i really want to squirt for him again without a dildo and i practice by myself alot lately and i have my hood pierced what else can we try?
Please help please send to email thank you. Test, try, experiment and get to know your own body first. This way you can discover what you need to feel in order to cum or squirt without the pressure of having your man there. Thank you sean i know i can squirt cause i did it already but with a toy and my fiancee was going fast and hard, but it kills his arm cause it takes me forever to let myself go.
Ugh i want to cum with him ,. Just give it time and enjoy the process. If you put pressure on yourself to squirt, then it actually going to be much harder to do it. WHen i do it, im really turned on, the first time i thought i squirt, it looked like i peed. I want to be able to squirt for my bf when we first have sex. I know we would both love it.
The most important thing is to make sure you are not putting pressure on yourself to perform. Putting pressure on yourself is completely counter-productive. In time, you will slowly discover nuances to your technique which will bring you closer and closer to squirting.
I followed your advice. Thank you so much! I have tried for the longest to make myself squirt but just dont understand how to do it. Is it a way to do it without using fingers? So I am able to squirt with my partner but not by myself. I do everything what you wrote and i feel the peeing feling very hard but nothing happens when i cum.
Then i go for another one after a second or two and another and it happens. I would like to try it with my boyfriend but it would be so stupid when he would try so hard and nothing would happen. Hello Sean, This is more for the ladies not really a question. So I am a man that has been very successful with making my girlfriends past and present squirt. The most important thing ladies is to relax.
I know not every woman can squirt but chances are your not one of them. Coach him until he gets it right. As a man myself I can full admit it took lots of practices and studying.
Yes studying the female body which includes reading to fully understand how and where to stimulate. So in conclusion fully relax and either alone or with a partner, do what feels best for you.
Does the body release it on its own? Or do I have to push it out? Hey when I masterbate. I only rub my clip but after a while it hurts it raw but i still wanna keep going is there a way not to stop but stop the pain.
The past few weeks my hubby and I have been trying to get me to squirt. But afterwards I have to pee like a rushing race horse.. Try it in the shower and just go for it. Is it normal to squirt a little bit the first time? Do I eventually squirt more after some practice? Does it get easier to squirt the more you do it? When I squirt it sometimes smells like I peed and sometimes it is yellow like pee. Did I squirt or no? Sometimes your ejaculate can mix with a small amount of urine.
Try peeing right before you get down to sexy times to help prevent it from happening again. You could be getting this feeling because you are stimulating your clitoris. I feel really pressured to squirt, I do get a peeing sensation sometimes. I think I occasionally squirt a little but not the big gush that he wants. I love our sex life and want to find a way to do it. We have tried fingering, him going down on me orally and stimulation of both my clit and G spot.
Do you have any advice? The first thing to understand that in order to squirt, you need to be relaxed. So talk to your man about it. The less pressure you are under, the better. Next, you may want to do a little experimentation on your own to figure out exactly what to do to bring yourself closer and closer.
The pushing feeling is very similar to the feeling of pushing out urine when you pee. I too have this problem. How can I achieve this final step? What I did was I was on my back, I used my strong arm to rub my clit and my left hand index n middle fingers bc I heard use 2 to go as fast as I could n as hard as I could press on it but found my arm getting tired….
I felt like I was under pressure just a tad tho bc I wanna squirt so bad! I tried to relax as much as I could. The peeing sensation lasted quite a while!
Can u give me ANY feedback on this plz- much appreciated Kelly. Also Idk if I actually squirted before…. Was this possibly squirting?! But just had to push? Or did I pee?! Some women gush instead of actually squirting.
Thank you so much!!!! How in the world am I supposed to relax and orgasm!? Am I the only one whose body completely siezes up and spases out? Will it just happen like a regular orgasm or am I supposed to push it out? To help you relax, you can try a glass of wine. Others find that weed can help too. When you feel the pressure build inside you, push out…even if it feels slightly like peeing. Im sure you have answered this but I seriously am terrified that I am going to pee instead of squirt.
I have never squirted but my bf said that last night he felt it building and that I almost did…. OMG I would be so embarrassed….. I do go to the bathroom before and after but still……any suggestions…. I know it really feels like you but trust me, you are not going to pee! This feeling is completely normal and I felt it for months before i learnt how to squirt. You need to relax and know that you are not going to pee. My boyfriend tried to make me squirt, it took months, but eventually he did it.
After the first time, it stopped feeling like I was going to pee. And I can just keep squirting, 10, 15 times in one session. If it happens, wonderful! Trying to get my wife to squirt and I understand what everyone is sying but can her cum be too thick to squirt? It seems like she would but it flows like lava rather then a guyser.
The main reason is because your bladder is right beside your G Spot. Nothing happened as far as ejaculating but I had a helluva orgasm. I was dating this guy and he have made me squirt like twice. I really would like to get that feeling again cause I had the best orgasm of my life.
My experience with squirting is when I am playing with my clitoris while having anal sex. I feel a tremendous pressure building inside me and then I orgasm and squirt out a lot of clear fluid, usually enough to leave a big wet puddle in the bed.
I think that your readers should be aware that some of the squirting you see in some porn, IS actually urine. Some years back, squirting was sort of an unknown, an urban legend type thing. I have been able to make several women squirt pretty consistently. First, have a few orgasms! Get your body all full of sex hormones. This is related to how the article above says to build up for 5 to 20 minutes.
Two things work best for me. First is woman on top, traditional cowgirl position. Her kneeling astride me. The difference is, I grab her hips and slide her back and forth against me, with my dick as far inside as it reaches. The other way that works best is, use your hand. She lays on her back, you kneel beside her.
Use your strong hand, insert your middle and ring fingers in her all the way, so that the heel of your Palm is on her clit and your hand cups her pussy. Your forefinger and pinky extend down alongside, out the way. Then you curl those 2 fingers inside her to rub against her G-spot, and rapidly and forcefully rub her clit and pump the fingers. Your hand is doing the job of a vibrator, not a dick. You can see this technique pretty frequently on videos from kink.
Hello Sean, Just wondering…. A key to cumming is making sure that you are completely relaxed. A key to preventing excessive discomfort is making sure that he takes is slow at first and also using a good condom compatible lube if you need extra lubrication. Any advice on how to reach an orgasm. Please respond to email, thanks. Sure, try out some of these clitoral stimulation techniques and these tips on finding and stimulating your G Spot. You will need both hands and a lot of lube to give her maximum pleasure with each and every touch.
I personally prefer my main hand I am left-handed for stimulation of her G-spot and the other one on her clit. If you are trying your best and applying all of the above techniques with no success, then there is still a hope of giving her that squirting orgasm.
Just try to add some sex toys to your efforts. The best ones that will make her squirt are those aiming at her g-spot. There is a wide variety of g-spot vibrators and dildos you can choose from. The last advice I can give to you is to have fun while trying to make her squirt.
Making her squirt is about letting her mind and body let go completely and relax. If you put her under pressure that she has to squirt to satisfy you then you may ruin your chances altogether. While some women are more orgasmic than others, achieving the first squirting orgasm will usually take some time.
I could tell it was as ready as it would ever be. I slowly pushed my fingers inside and started to give it my all.
It took fast, hard motion to accomplish what I was looking for. I kept going, my arm getting tired, I stayed at it, until finally, I felt something, a warm splash onto my hand. Despite all my efforts, there was no proof that it would actually work, and yet here she was, shaking, experiencing her first orgasm, her sex life changed for good.
It is my opinion that squirting is not an inherent ability of a limited few, but rather an option available to every girl if stimulated in the proper way. Eventually, she started rubbing her clit while I had my fingers inside her. Suddenly I can just feel a lot something come rushing against my fingers and I pull out this all happened in seconds.
The moment I pulled my fingers out a stream came squirting out after. She is shaking from the orgasm and both of our jaws dropped when she squirted.
She swears she never squirted in her life and had no idea she could even do that. Quote was copied from this thread published by an unknown user.
As a demonstration, gently caress your cheek with your fingers. Then, press your fingers a bit in and actually move your cheek around a bit. I discovered that instead of the come hither, you have to kind of hook your 1 or 2 fingers and aggressively press against the anterior wall of the vagina behind the clit basically.
After about 1 minute of that stimulation, she was shooting across the room. The latter would come some 20 times in 2 hours, and gush perhaps 10 times. Its funny, but she has done this for a long time before me, but at 40yo, I was the first to make her come from intercourse.
I have tried my best to create the most comprehensive guide for making any girl squirt. However, if you still have a question on your mind, then browse through my FAQ section below. Because over time, this section grew significantly in its size, I have decided to create an overview with quick access. There are several factors that can affect the likelihood of squirting, including the strength of her vaginal pelvic floor muscles, psychological aspects relaxation and comfort , overcoming the urge to pee not holding it back , and the level of her sexual experience and that of her partner.
Jump back to the overview of FAQs. A lot of guys were asking me if there are any non-sexual signs that can indicate she is more orgasmic and that she could easily achieve squirting orgasm.
Luckily, there are some signs you could look for in a girl. Also, if a woman does yoga or horseback riding, there is a good chance she will have strong vaginal muscles — another strong clue that she will be able to squirt like a fountain. Squirting female ejaculation is very similar to a male orgasm; she releases a huge amount of liquids out of her urethra.
This liquid is very clear, watery, and usually odorless. Luckily, they are wrong. Thanks to the fructose and glucose this liquid has a sweet taste. Her lifestyle definitely affects how much liquids she can squirt. The best part is the fact that you can easily improve any of these factors. All you have to do is to invest some effort and time to it. Surprisingly, women are quite different than we guys. Despite the fact that squirting orgasm is a very intense sexual experience, women can achieve it more than once during one sex session.
I would say the first thing to keep in mind is that how it happens can be different from person to person whether or not everyone is even capable of it is a matter of debate , so you might need to do some experimenting to figure out what, er, makes the dam burst for you.
Like you, I have orgasms pretty easily and had wondered about trying to make myself squirt when one day it just happened, BAM! Took me completely by surprise, and now it happens almost every time we have certain kinds of sex. Squirting often happens during orgasm, but it can also happen right before an orgasm or completely independent of one.
Most guides to female ejaculation state that it goes hand-in-hand or fill in the appropriate body parts yourself with G-spot stimulation. Since then, for me, it happens frequently during oral sex and sometimes during fingering, and even once or twice while receiving anal sex. See the picture to the left and this cool 3D vulva website. For me, the speed, pressure, motion, etc.
Some guides also suggest teasing yourself or having a partner tease you and working up to an orgasm very slowly; if you already have orgasms pretty easily, this may or may not make a difference, but at the very least it will make for a fun afternoon of experimenting.
Here's a fact that might surprise you: All women have the physical ability to squirt —a.k.a. ejaculate, just like men—it's just a matter of pushing the right “buttons”. Then I'd run back to the bedroom, resume “p-in-v” with my partner and, again, feel the need to urinate. You could call it the very worst kind of. If you want to learn how to squirt, you'll need to enlist the help of your G-spot. The G-spot is hotly debated in its own right, but researchers agree.